Hi Kerstin!
This sounds like an amazing trip. Since you are relying on trains and buses, the two best places to break up your journey without adding stressful travel time are Limerick City or Cork City.
Both sit directly on major transit routes and will cater exactly to your tastes:
1.
Cork: You can visit the haunting, abandoned prison tunnels at Spike Island, walk the stunning walled paths at Fota Gardens, and catch nightly folk sessions at The Sin É pub.
2.
Limerick: You can cycle a perfectly flat riverside path along the River Shannon, explore the historic Mount Saint Lawrence Cemetery, and experience live folk music at Dolan's Pub.
You can easily map out your train connections on
Irish Rail or look at nationwide express coach options on
Bus Éireann. Wherever you choose to stop, it’s going to be an amazing trip! Safe travels! 💚