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Ireland is famous for its castles, cliffs and wild Atlantic landscapes, but for couples travelling here to get married, there's another side of an Ireland elopement that's just as special — the traditions, stories and culture you discover along the way.I've worked with couples travelling to Ireland from all over the world, particularly the USA and Canada, and many arrive wanting their wedding to feel genuinely connected to Ireland rather than simply having an Irish backdrop.The good news is that you don't need to turn your ceremony into something overly traditional to do that. There are lots of small ways to bring a little Irish character into the experience.Celtic HandfastingHandfasting has become one of the most popular additions to symbolic elopement ceremonies in Ireland.During the ceremony, the couple's hands are joined together using ribbons, cords or meaningful pieces of material. It's simple, incredibly visual and works particularly well for an outdoor ceremony at a castle, beside the coast or somewhere in the Irish countryside.Some couples even bring material that means something personally to them, which makes the ceremony feel much more individual.Irish Blessings, Readings and MusicYou don't need a completely traditional Irish ceremony to include elements of Irish culture.An Irish blessing or reading can be a lovely addition, while traditional Irish music can completely change the atmosphere of a ceremony — particularly somewhere remote where the landscape becomes part of the experience.Sometimes one or two thoughtful Irish elements are far more meaningful than trying to include everything.A Little Irish Whiskey 🥃For couples who enjoy whiskey, incorporating an Irish whiskey ritual or simply sharing a toast after the ceremony can be another relaxed way of marking the occasion.It doesn't have to be complicated. Some of the nicest moments happen when the formal part of the ceremony finishes, everyone relaxes and the couple simply takes a minute to realise:We actually just got married in Ireland.Castles, Ruins and the Stories Behind ThemIreland has no shortage of spectacular castles, abbeys and ancient ruins, but they're much more interesting when you know something about the place you're standing in.Many locations have centuries of history, local stories and folklore attached to them.If you're choosing somewhere historic for your ceremony or photographs, take a little time to learn about it. Suddenly it's not just an incredible backdrop for wedding photographs — it becomes part of the story of your trip to Ireland.Don't Be Afraid of Irish Folklore ☘️Ireland has an extraordinary relationship with folklore, superstition and storytelling.You don't have to take every old Irish belief too seriously, of course, but discovering some of the stories connected with the places you're visiting can be great fun — particularly if you're travelling around rural Ireland.It's one of those things that can turn an ordinary stop on your itinerary into somewhere you'll remember.And Then There's the Irish Pub… 🍺This might be my favourite.After the ceremony, photographs and exploring are finished, stopping at a traditional Irish pub can completely change the pace of the day.Wedding clothes, a quiet corner, a pint of Guinness and inevitably someone asking:"Did you two just get married?" 😂Before long, half the pub knows about it.For couples travelling from overseas, these spontaneous moments can become some of the best memories of the entire trip.And from a photographer's point of view, they're often brilliant too. Once everyone relaxes and forgets about the camera, you start getting photographs that genuinely feel like the couple rather than another wedding pose.Make Ireland Part of the ExperienceThat's probably the biggest piece of advice I'd give couples coming here to elope.Don't travel thousands of miles simply to have a wedding ceremony with Ireland sitting quietly in the background.Experience it.Learn something about the places you're visiting. Talk to people. Listen to the stories. Stop in the small pubs. Try the food. Embrace the weather. Leave a little space in the itinerary for something completely unplanned to happen.The cliffs, mountains and castles will obviously be incredible.But sometimes it's the things you never planned that end up feeling the most Irish.For anyone planning their own day, I've put together a more detailed guide to Irish wedding traditions, folklore and culture when eloping in Ireland, with more ideas and practical advice for incorporating Irish traditions into your elopement experience.I'd also love to hear from anyone planning a wedding or elopement here:Is there an Irish tradition, piece of folklore or experience that you'd love to include in your day? 🇮🇪☘️ShaneIreland Elopements & Co
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